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Old 28-10-2005, 05:05 PM   #1
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This past week has been Hell for me.
Alot of you know I was expecting Twins. (A Boy and a Girl)
They were due to be delivered by cezer on the 11 of nov.
Life couldnt have been better last firday, there was only 3 weeks to go.

We found out on Monday that we have lost them both. Some thing went worng in the past 2 to 3 weeks. We still dont know what and may never know.
I just want to say a huge THANK YOU to the people that have been there for me over the past few days.

I have not made this public for sorrow, pitty or any reason like that.
I'm making this public because there are quiet a few people that would have been asking me over the comming weeks how's the family and the misses ect.
I just wanted to try and avoid that.Figured it easier telling everyone at once than one at a time.

THANKS again everyone.



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Old 28-10-2005, 05:12 PM   #2
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We found out on Monday that we have lost them both. Some thing went worng in the past 2 to 3 weeks. We still dont know what and may never know.

I have not made this public for sorrow, pitty or any reason like that.
Kev, I dont know you, but right now i feel for you and your family, stay strong.
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Old 30-10-2005, 05:28 PM   #3
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Hi Kev, i dont know you either, but i feel for you & the family through this tough time, hopefully our thoughts help in some way.
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Old 30-10-2005, 06:12 PM   #4
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Kev and Kylie,

I sit in front of my computer feeling feeble about this, as I am gobsmacked by the news I recieved late yesterday.

Im not good enough with words, so i will say that im extremely sorry, i wish somehow we ( FF family ) can shoulder some of this for you.

I'll call you mate, then i'll get something organised for you. You deserve more than this, im sick of bad happening to good people.

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Old 28-10-2005, 05:14 PM   #5
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Kev,
Its very sad to hear about your loss, my heart felt best wishes to you and your wife.

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Old 28-10-2005, 05:18 PM   #6
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Old 28-10-2005, 05:19 PM   #7
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Sorry to hear that sad news Kev & Kylie, just when things were going so well for you both.

I bet its tough at the moment, hard to understand why these things happen, but youre a great couple and im sure you will both move forward from here.

All the best guys.
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Old 28-10-2005, 05:31 PM   #8
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My heart feels for you both. I honestly don't know what I would be feeling if I was in you and your partners position. Stay strong.
 
Old 28-10-2005, 05:31 PM   #9
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Man,

What can I say ... I know what it is like losing a close family member ... but not that kind of loss ... especially twins. That's heart wrenching indeed.

At least you know that their innocence will remain with them forever.

Very sorry to hear about your loss.
I hope both you and your wife are coping OK.
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Old 28-10-2005, 05:44 PM   #10
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My condolances Kev, very sorry to hear that.
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Old 28-10-2005, 05:55 PM   #11
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kev, you still have your partner, and if it wasn't meant to be, you can't change anything, keep your chin up and stay strong, blow work off and look after wifey.
have been there before, but not with twins.

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Old 28-10-2005, 05:59 PM   #12
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A very sad time, although mostly we only see the words on a screen we still feel other members joys and as now, heartache. My condolences to you and Kylie.
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Old 28-10-2005, 06:00 PM   #13
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kev, my condolances go out to you and your girl.. i have no idea how i'd be feeling if in the same position.
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There could be nothing worse, im so sorry,
and i hope you have a good future
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I too don't know you personally but my condolences. I have no comprehension of the pain you two must be feeling right now, but give yourselves time to heal. Don't rush it.

Take care, and give an extra special hug to your wife.
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hang in there and stay strong
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I am so sorry to hear that, Kev. I can't imagine how you and your wife must be feeling right now. My best wishes go to you and your wife.
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I don't know you at all. I can only come close to imaging what the two of you must be going through right now.
My thoughts are with you.
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I can't even begin to understand how devastating this must be for you both. My condolences, I'm very sorry for your loss. As hard as it must be hang in there.
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Im at a loss for words.. There is no words to be said...
Condolences to both you & partner mate and other family members
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I don't know you personally,but I'm terribly sorry to hear about your loss,condolences to you and your wife.
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I also do not know you, but I am very, very sorry to hear of your loss.

A very similar thing happened to my sister and husband-in-law last year.

All the best.
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SOrry to hear Kev and Kylie. My condolences to you both.
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THATS A VERY BIG THING KEV I'M SO SO SORRY TO HEAR IT . lie low for a while forget about work . spend sometime mourning with your wife . evaluate it. you owe it to yourself and your wife to take a break from it all for a while . take some time out . then take a hioliday. regards frank.
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Very sorry to hear of your loss, condolences to you and your missus.
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Sorry to hear... Condolences to you both
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Condolences guy's...hang tuff..be there for each other..you will make it through.

If at anytime you need support...the family is here.
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So sorry to hear that, my condolences and prayers go out to you and your wife.
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Kev, condolances to you and your family mate . this is a poem someone sent me and my girl when we lost our bub too ! Im not sure who wrote it .

These are my foot prints,
so perfect and small.
These tiny footprints,
never touched the ground at all.

Not one tiny footprint,
for now I have my wings.
These tiny footprints,
were meant for other things.

You will hear my tiny footprints,
in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angels tears,
of happiness, not pain.

You will see my tiny footprints ,
in each butterflies lazy dance.
I'll let you know I'm with you,
if you give me just a chance.

You will see my tiny footprints ,
in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind,
and call each one who grieves.

Most of all, these tiny footprints,
are found in my mummy's heart,
cause even though I'm gone now,
we will never truly part!
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i can't imagine how it feels to lose a child mate...i won't even begin to...somethings just can't be said but all i can say is my thoughts are with you and your wife....best regards for the comming weeks
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